Gamut Of Attraction

Opposite attracts- it is true for living creatures.  You will find, daughters are more attached to their father and boys are attached to their mother.  You will all notice that the atmosphere of a hall full of guys will suddenly change when a girl enters the hall. It is the chemistry or the chemical composition of living creatures which is so intelligently made by god, which helps creatures in maintaining the reproduction cycle. 

Now a step further: a man who always maintains a tough posture in his initial stages of life, gradually mellows down. In other words, a man who grows older, adopts the posture of a woman. The other side of the story:  A woman, who in her formative years till about middle age is regarded as emotional and generous, turns tougher later, like a man. I have even seen some bearded women. So it is all a ball game of opposite attracts.  

Now coming to a materialistic life: you always find a man with more money, has a desire to earn more. A man with moderate savings is more generous compared to a rich man. I am sure many will not agree with this statement, but this is the fact of the life. Money attracts money. The more you earn, the desire to earn more will increase. A contended man will always find solace in what he has; compared to a greedy man who will spend his whole life in earning and grabbing things of others. 

A Story

The great Sikinder after conquering many kingdom was passing through a lone stretch, he found a fakir ( a religious mendicant ) lying on a cart on road side. Sikinder was little annoyed but more amazed to observe that fakir did not get up from his cart out of fear of Sikinder and his mighty army. Sikinder turn back and came to   fakir don't you know that Sikinder and his army is passing through this road, arn't you  scared? The fakir smiled and asked Sikinder where are you going ? Sikinder answered Iam going to conquer Hindustan. The fakir again asked what are you going to do after that ? He replied I will conquer whole of world. The fakir asked once again  you haven't answered my query where are you going what will you do after conquering the whole world ? Sikender who was not only a great warrior but also a great philsopher took a pause and replied there after I will relax and take rest. The fakir started laughing and said my lord what you think I am doing at this road side without destroying and killing millions.
          So life is very simple it is we who  makes  it complicated. We are always bother about others. All our acts are depended on what people will think about us whole of our life revolves on this single issue. We don't live the way we want. We live for others. The clothes  we wear always depends upon how people will like it. When we talk,  when we walk, where we shop, all our functions, all our ceremonies - the list is endless.      

Today morning in hospital watching a close colleague sinking reminds me about life's uncertainty. It is difficult to believe that one comes to this world with a definite schedule of events to happen. One has no control what to speak or remain quite, no control to give or demand,  no control on life or death, no control on wealth, no one is good or bed, in fact every thing is so pre determined  that we are just like a puppet who follows master order.